I only said to edit the name nothing else, your last example looks correct.
How are you posting the IPN manually? it has to be a form post, it isn't going to read values out of the query string, so just pasting that url in the browser won't do it.
I would set it like the 3rd example then try a real order for a small amount, or if I'm not mistaken PayPal will retry IPN every 24 hours for a short time if it does not get a success response when it posts.
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